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I grew up in a military family, we moved every
few years. I rode horses everywhere I lived, riding with friends
and at riding stables. I fell in love with horses when I was 5
years old and rode a donkey in Holland. I was able to purchase
my first horse in 1974 and she was with me until she passed away
at the age of 26 in 1996. I still have her son, who is now 27
years old.
I think that developing a close friendship with
a horse is one of the greatest gifts one can have.
I originally wrote this book for horses and
their new owners in the late 80’s because I had heard of
and seen so many people receive bad advice when looking for a
horse. I have seen sellers try to pass off a horse that should
never have been sold to first time owners or used for a mount
for children. Many people do not take the time to look at several
different horses or educate themselves with lessons prior to looking
for a horse. Based on very little information they buy the wrong
horse, just because they want a horse so badly. Usually they end
up wishing they had never purchased the horse. If they had taken
riding lessons, researched the pros and cons of horse ownership
and how to buy a horse prior to the actual purchasing, they would
have had a great experience
I also wrote this book because too many people
seem to think they can treat horses like they do cars. A horse
unlike a car does not have unlimited energy and a horse can be
severely injured from attempting to do the commands given to him.
He can have psychological problems from mistreatment. He feels
fear, pain, rejection and happiness just as we do. They are not
something to be thrown away or abandon when one tires of them.
People tend to forget that a horse is a living breathing creature
and should be treated with respect. They take a lot of time, attention
and love and these facts need to be taken into consideration before
you buy a horse.
Shortly after I wrote this book, I was involved
in an automobile accident that totally changed my life and that
of my animals. I could no longer care for my horse. He had to
be placed in a boarding stable. After several years of intense
physical therapy, I have been able to start getting back to some
of the things I love. In 2005 I expanded the chapter on boarding
stables and have revised some of the other chapters due to the
experiences that my horse “Cok” and I have gone through.
There is not one book or one person who knows
everything about horses, which is why you want to study under
several riding instructors, read several magazines and books before
you buy. This book should be one of many in your quest to horse
ownership.
No matter how long you have owned horses you
continue to have new insights into your horse’s personality
as you go through different situations together and get older
together. One of the great pleasures of horses is that you bond
closer and closer over time.
Owning and caring for a horse is one of the
most rewarding experiences you will ever have and even if you
are physically unable to ride, you can still own and enjoy horses.
A lot of people may tell you that you should not have a horse
because horses need to be ridden. But do you really think that
the horse cares if he is ridden? No, his idea of a good day is
a field with delicious grass and good friends to be with, this
includes you. Horses love it when you go out and sit with them.
Talk with them and groom them. They love to be fussed over. If
you cannot ride but would like to be more physically involved
with horses, you might consider the possibility of learning how
to drive a horse under harness (carriage).
Every one will tell you that horses are a large
responsibility. This is true, as they require your patience, your
time, your money, your common sense and hopefully your love. But
they are well worth it, if you love them and give them the time
and attention they need. They can be your best friend and you
will have a lot of fun together. They bring a sense of calmness
to your life and peace to your inner being and they seem to complete
your life.
I hope that you find your perfect horse
partner and that you have many enjoyable years and adventures
together.
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